Back in the states: a dream

Back in the states he sat in his room and watched the wind move palm trees outside his window. The wind was blowing from the Southeast, and it was warm, a fire danger. The smallest spark would send a fire raging up into the hills, threatening mansions and drawing engines from all over.

He fell asleep to the sound of the wind.

In the dream he was lying in the grass. A woman was lying next to him, her body pressing down reeds of grass, blond hair pillowed on the ground. Even though he did not know the woman in his dream; he saw in the woman in his dream something like the girl he'd been with during his first six months in Rome.

The two of them had met in a modern art class during a section on sculpture. The two of them had worked painstakingly on a tacky clay models, shaped over the course of a four hour class session to look like the naked model, an old man with age marks on his ribs and back, who stood in the front of the class, shivering and nude.

When they stepped back from their designs the teacher asked them to look at their neighbor's and comment. The two of them stepped away, eyes blurred, and stared at the sculptures. They were, even by a rough estimate, not particularly good. But how did one say this to a stranger?
As they stood there, in the cold and silent room, he started to offer a critique, complimenting the shape of the clay's right arm, some tenor of movement that he wanted to say that she'd captured.

Her lower lip started to quiver and at first he was certain that she was going to cry. She burst into a quiet laughter instead; her eyebrows lowering as she tried to contain fits of laughter. Her whole body shook with the effort. At first, he was offended and almost walked away, but then he looked again at his sculpture with new eyes. The head was like a watermelon that had been sliced open, the arms were uneven, and the legs seemed to have more in common with the legs of a very large herbivore than a human being. He started to smile and then found himself trying to control his laughter as well. The girl put a hand to her mouth to stifle a giggle, failing, and the two of them walked quickly from the room and out onto the street.

On the street a church bell was tolling and a flock of pigeons were wandering around after a boy peddling his bicycle down the alley, dropping bits of bread over his shoulder as he went.
"What did it look like?" the girl asked, pausing to catch her breath.
"Something subhuman," he said. "Like a cross between a panda bear and a cougar, in which the mating didn't go well. Like it was something they tried but called off mid-way. Like Victor Frankenstein would walk by and be appalled at what he saw."

She smiled at him, which he didn't notice because he was looking down at the cobbles, too shy to raise them. The light from the sun was making a dazzling display on the ground where water trickled down from the eaves and ran between the cobbles and towards sewers 2,000 years old.

On writing mostly

As far as I can tell, the world is not crying out for my opinion on things, let alone the election. Nor should my voice be a particularly loud one as I'm a white male, which is as protected of a class as you get in our current instantiation of Democracy. I should say that if you voted for Trump, willingly ignoring his racist and sexist rhetoric, then I'd be hard-pressed to see eye to eye with you. This was not a normal election. Trump just settled a suit for 25 million dollars for bilking people out of funds with a faux for-profit University, and yet we expended a great deal of energy trying to combat the image of crooked Hillary. No. Donald Trump is what it looks like when someone is crooked, and we elected him President. I digress.

I write for fun. Or rather, I write for fun because I haven't found anyone who wants to pay me for it on a regular or semi-regular basis. As such, and noting my protected class, it's maybe deeply selfish to even talk about how this election has effected my perception of the written word. I'm not taking the usual tack that I've seen post-election: we're all in an echo chamber, the media lies, we aren't listening to one another, people aren't racist except when they are. Rather, it has deeply effected my understanding of why I write.

I had an interview recently with the Sierra Nevada Review, be sure to look for that on the internet the moment it arrives (crickets), and I talked about why I write. It's this old idea I had that fiction could build empathy by allowing people to briefly jump the fourth wall and get access to someone else's thoughts. Fiction has been doing Being John Malkovich stuff for centuries now. And yet, the results of this election make me question that premise and perhaps the ability of anyone to have access to any mind but our own. Even our fictional characters might surprise us by voting Trump.

The election has briefly shattered my desire to write and create, to give small portals into these fictional characters because I have people right in front of me, every day, who I managed to know nothing about. It seems implausible that fiction could actively go about bridging that unbridgeable gap between the you and the I. So why try?

There are many arguments for the continued role of writers in a post-Trump world. However, for the time being, I'm not writing about sadness and loneliness or the way the light slants across a snowy field. I can't do that right now. I don't know anyone. Not even myself.

Here is an owl:

Ninja stars and Halloween

When I was a child, I used to dress up as a ninja every year for Halloween. We didn't have enough money for an actual costume, so I just put a blanket over my face. I wanted to be like Snake Eyes, the silent ninja from G.I. Joe. I wanted to throw ninja stars around the corner of our hallway. All day I'd practice with small paper stars, taped heavily that never found their way around the corner like I wanted. Life is full of little disappointments.

One year, in fourth grade, I went with my best friend's mom to pick out a real costume. Somehow, we settled on a raccoon. I was, by fourth grade, aware that I was too old to be wearing a raccoon costume without looking like a fool. This identity, knowledge of self in relation to other selves, wasn't with me much until that year. Suddenly, I knew, acutely, that I looked foolish wearing a costume and holding out my bag and saying trick or treat to adults, who knew that I was too old to be dressed up in a hot costume.

I cut trick or treating short that night and went home with a pillow case only half full of candy, not accounting for all the crummy hard candy that some people gave out at Halloween, Jolly Ranchers and thick bazooka Joe gumballs, little plastic wrappers of disappointment. You wish, some years, maybe not often, but when you write, or in reverie that you could go back in time. and I don't mean to physically shrink myself, But rather, you wish that you could go back to a little boy standing at the edge of a hallways with a piece of folded paper in his hands, desperately, but hopefully, waiting for it to turn round the corner and make a beeline for the back door. And then you'd know, at least for that day, that you'd done something new. 

World Civilization Texts

Early in the fifth century, a king came to power who suggested that the Bible had been misread, and that rather than reviling snakes, they all should be collected and revered. This king ruled but a short time in Egypt before he was killed by a snake's bite on the heel of his left foot.

In roughly 400 B.C. a poet came to power and built a city based on aesthetics and beauty. Some say he was the basis or reason that poets were left out of Plato's perfect Polis. The city was made entirely of porphyry, and every staircase was adorned with Pegasus or Griffins and door handles were elaborate mouths of lions. Everyone in the city spent their time making the city more beautiful, each person, forgetting their duty to one another, as everyone sought to make even the slightest object, a shelf, a hand towel, the most beautiful iteration that the world had ever seen. As you might imagine, such a city could never last, and the city was sacked by marauding Vikings and the ruler burned at the stake.


Long before human beings had arisen from the seas, struggled onto land, climbed into and out of the trees, a prophet arose in the sea. He was a mollusk and was prone to long periods of silence, which his followers often mistook for devotion. This prophet foretold of a day when the mollusks would cease hanging onto the walls of rocks, and they would walk on two feet and play baseball and sometimes smoke a cigarette behind the 7-11 on their sixteenth birthday. He too was eventually burned at the stake, but years later, and in a city far away from here.

Hello from across the room

I made you a paper airplane when we were in second grade. I wrote, "I love you," in the middle of the white page, using a yellow crayon. Back then the only shade of yellow we had was just that, yellow. I made the airplane using all the skill I could muster, but I was never any good with my hands or fine motor skills, so I botched the job. It was the first, or so it seems, though it must already have been the thousandth, of jobs I'd botch in my lifetime. But that's a story for another day.

I'd been in love with you for at least a week, maybe even two. It's hard to remember because time goes like the wings of a hummingbird when you're in love. Once, I'd seen you on the playground playing four square and your face was flushed with exertion. It was a Tuesday, and perhaps that's the day that I fell in love. Though it could have been a Wednesday. I lose track of these sorts of things. 

I made the airplane that afternoon during recess, and I looked at you from across the room. You were looking at your pencil, forming perfect o's with the kind of care that characterized all of your work. Who couldn't love such a diligent worker? The plane's wings were uneven, but I thought or knew that it would soar across the room, past the blackboard and over the wooden desks to land perfectly on your desk. 

I couldn't imagine, truth be told, a life where the plane didn't soar across that space and unite the two of us in love. I waited until the teacher had turned back towards the board. She was showing us the letter q, making certain that we formed the tail with a slight mark out to the right. All of her attention was focused, laser-like on the board. I remember her dark helmet of hair, rigidly cut off at the shoulders. And then I threw it.

The plane flew across the room like a thousand ships sailing across the seas. And then the shoddy job I'd done on the wings came into play and the plane spiraled, falling like a mallard from Duck Hunt towards the ground, where it alighted right on the desk of another girl, who's name I barely knew. She hesitated for a moment, looking shyly at me, her cheeks turning scarlet and then she opened the letter.

Sometimes things don't work out quite as you planned. And sometimes they do. She and I have been together now these forty years, all because of those faulty wings, that doomed flight.

Just another Friday morning in the middle of nowhere land

                I wish I could have bottled, like perfume, that summer we spent on the shore. Most evenings, we’d watch the sky fade to blue from a bench in the local park, laughing at nearly everything we said. You used to do a voice that sounded a bit like Donald Duck, and in that voice, you’d narrate the day’s events, becoming increasingly enraged, as Donald is prone to do, about the slightest of insults, the copy machine jamming or collating in an unsatisfactory manner. I used to stare at the shape of your lips, wondering how long it would be until I could lean over and quiet your idle chit chat with a kiss.

                I read somewhere recently about black holes, an idea that perhaps we could use them to bore through time, the world’s most interesting drill. If I could bore through time and have the years fly past me like trees out the window of a train, I’d go straight back to that summer on the shore. Just when you were telling me about your boss’s boss, and her insane little Corgi, I’d lean over to kiss you, and then I’d wrap my arm around your shoulders and wait for evening to settle, for the cicadas to start humming and all the birds to come down from out of the sky, to rest their light bones on the shells of trees and rocks. Wouldn’t you? 

Game of Thrones: Oathbreaker

Game of Thrones is a television show. This may come as a surprise to some of you who thought it was a series of books. I'd call it an American television show, but its scope is global. Anyhow, the thing about television that's different than a book is that it relies on visuals to move the plot along. Books use words. Stick with me here just like Bran is sticking with that guy who grew into a tree. A subtle pun rests in the prior sentence because trees have sticks. Anyhow, there was a great deal of exposition this episode, a few false starts, and then the end of a watch. With GOT, I often expect a great deal to happen. Though I sometimes then criticize the show for rushing through scenes and making a mess of it. Hello Dorne plot line. This episode was satisfying, in part because it was content with things not happening. The most exciting scene, a legendary sword battle, took place twenty to thirty years prior. 

We grant books their expositional scenes, though apparently Martin's are notorious for describing the exact flavor of the mead and pig's snout. In television, we often expect more. Mad Men, televisions best show for many years, was allowed to rise slowly towards a climax like an expert lover. Because GOT is so grand, it's hard not to want everything to happen all at once, and it's a relief when it doesn't. In part because the slow build of scenes and rivalries is what made the plot leading up to the Red Wedding just so good. What's Tywin up to with all those birds. Oh, I see, plotting an awful murder. Except I didn't see, which is why it's fun to occasionally linger, watching Tyrion try and coax something interesting out of Missandei and Grey Worm was delightful. My only real doubt in this regard is wondering if time lost in those lingering scenes. It wouldn’t be a problem in season one, but the viewer can start to feel the clock ticking on these final 19 episodes that need to bring us from fifty different narrative threads into one giant war with ice zombies who look like someone’s long haired grandpa. If that long haired grandpa was also a zombie who stole babies. I only had one grandpa like that. The other one was pretty normal. 

The show is bookended by scenes at the wall. The rearrival of the show’s hero, Jon Snow, is spiked with some nice dialogic turns. Rather than throwing Jon back into the world raging at Sir Alliser the bastard, we get a rather nice scene of Jon, genuinely perplexed at his plight. “I shouldn’t  be here,” he says, but even better, “I did what I thought was the right thing, and I got killed for it.” The Stark children have been learning that lesson for quite some time, and it’s nice that this time they could just bring the murdered child back to life. Even if he isn’t a full Stark, but part Targaryan as well. I found the scenes of him hugging the red-haired Wildling and his friend very touching, just as I found the scene at the end where he parted ways with Olly and Sir Alliser, touching. He seems genuinely troubled with what has transpired, and it’s believable that he leaves the wall, his watch, by virtue of his death, ended. However, I’m not entirely sure what  Jon Snow who isn’t only doing the right thing will look like. It’s not like he doesn’t know that the ice zombies are out there taunting him, so he better walk quickly, and in a southern direction if he wants to get anywhere worth being.

Remember Sam and Gilly? What about Gilly’s baby? Bran Stark has grown three feet in the same amount of time that child has gone from being 8 months old to nine months old. That said, their relationship is a sweet counterpoint to the usual muck and mayhem of a thrones episode, though I can’t even remember the last time we had a good scene of sexposition. However, like Jon, Sam needs to get off that boat, wipe the vomit from his hair and get to reading books because the white walkers aren’t moving as slowly as that baby’s journey through life.

Since Lost ended, television has always had one rule, flashbacks are great. The second is like unto it: having a sword fight with a dude spinning two swords at once makes it way cooler. Young Ned proves to be a bit light in the swordsmanship and benefits from a stab in the back to best the best sword in the land, which leads him, though he looks about 17, up into the tower to rescue Jon before his sister dies. Or whatever you think is up there…but it’s that.

Back in the weirdwood tree, Bran carps about being a cripple, while Hodor gently rubs his lower back and asks if they can slow Bran’s growth spurt down like Craster’s baby. Alas, says the man who lives in the tree, we’re just going to hang out and look at the past. Now roll me another one Bran and let me tell you about the time I rode a dragon.

Unsatisfied, with the incredibly fast pace of the Daenyrs plot line in Mereen, (the queen raises taxes by one denari, the populous is restless…is roughly what a video game version would like. Her plot is basically leveling to the nth degree), they move her back into the Doth Rahki home..or do they? If she gets condemned to death it’s clear that Drogon is going to come down and eat the Doth Rahki like goats.

Back in Mereen, Varus finally makes some headway into solving the man in the golden masks. Those masks look heavy and make them rather easy to identify. I think they should have gone with arm bands or something. Varus, ever the kind heart, manages to buy off the prostitute and put her on a ship, though the news he delivers is virtually useless—all the other rich people are working against us. This is peppered between Tyrion trying to get Grey Worm or Missendei to say anything interesting, but I feel like that particular show could go on for 8 more seasons without ever having that happen. Theirs is a love story that can never be told, and so I hope it isn’t.

Qyburn arrives back on the scene, creepy as ever, handing out odd plum candy to children. Qyburn, everyone thinks you’re creepy. Can’t you give them some chocolate or something. Does it have to be candied plums? Nevertheless, his spy network is now out and about seeking to find anyone who doesn’t like Cersei so the purple mountain can bash their head into a wall.

As I noted at the start, some things don’t happen. Cersei and Jaime march into the small council to declare war on Dorne and the council promptly walks out. Though it was a delight to see the lady Olenna, a real treasure of the show back to throw barbs at everyone in sight.

Tommen, full of as much rage as his kitten from the books, marches into the High Sparrow’s presence and appears to have a sermon delivered to him. It was your standard three point sermon, probably learned in seminary, but Tommen seems convinced and promptly forgets why he was there and starts batting at a yarn ball.

Arya continues her “training.” And by training I mean beatings and torture. As I noted before, I’m not quite certain what she’s gaining by eliminating her identity, since it’s her identity that lead her to become an assassin in the first place. Can she not just call it quits now, like when someone is ABD and decides to become a surf instructor instead of a history professor? Can she walk now? I think she should. I think she won’t.

And finally, we get Ramsay another pair of people to torture. Like most viewers, I’m confused by the nuanced presentation of Ramsay that the show has engaged in so far. Is he horrible? The worst? Or the horrible worst? I can’t wait to see what sort of unholy things he has to unleash on Rikkon and Osha to show the viewer that he’s quite evil, a fact which escapes us otherwise. I can only hope that he’ll be eating a sausage in a few episodes while Rikkon looks on in horror. Okay. I just hope Osha stabs him in the scrotum for five minutes straight. I guess we'll see. 

Game of Thrones Episode 2

The second episode of Game of Thrones was back and better than ever. Well, not better than ever, but good. Quite frankly, I always feel a twinge of excitement when I see the episode is going to be a long one. My hope is that Benioff and Weiss avail themselves of HBO’s varying run times as they start to wind this behemoth down to a close. And, besides the reminder of the violence and rampant nudity, even if it’s of elderly folks, GOT is nothing if not a behemoth. The show’s cast stretches far beyond the wall that stops most television shows short, which means that we often say thing like, “What the hell happened to Rikkon?” He was presumably eaten by shaggy dog. And remember the Karstak family? Me neither. Thanks for the “heads up” on that one GOT trailer.

The sprawling nature of the narrative that has paralyzed Martin into gibbering inaction is the very thing that the showrunners are not staring straight in the face like Tyrion into the eye of a dragon. And if this episode is any indication, they might actually pull it off. I was relieved to see the mild disclaimers at the beginning of the episode, as I thought the first episode lingered a moment too long here and there on scenes of violence, people bleeding out on the floor. This was  a tidy episode thanks to uncomplicated kill shots like that delivered by the Mountain onto the man of prodigious penis. That lack of violence, of nudity for nudity’s sake, helped this episode of GOT feel propulsive. And it felt propulsive in exactly the way that Martin’s books seem to have failed at. This was the first episode where you started to see that things were going to start getting tidied up for the final battle, which for years I’ve said is going to culminate with Tyrion, Jon and Dani riding dragons over a hoard of white walkers. The feeling suddenly dawned on me that this show was one day going to end.

If the first episode started the hash tag #alloldnakedbodies, (for the record, huge fan of the old naked body. Our culture is youth obsessed, though that might be true for many cultures throughout time. However, we basically shun older people and pretend like it isn’t happening. My hash tag is designed around the idea that every GOT episode should feature an old naked body. It’s time for the show to make up for all the gratuitous nudity and violence with a healthy dose of old naked bodies.)  then this episode was really about the triumph of the showrunners in starting to tame Martin’s material. 

The big reveal at the end, Jon's alive, was pretty much the worst kept secret this side of where Arya's wolf ran off to. I'm just kidding, where is that thing? Is it on a boat with Gendry? I'd watch that buddy comedy. However, the slow burn of Jon coming back to life after another failure by the red woman was satisfying drama. What does it mean? Beyond the fact that we get to see Kit Harrington's beautiful hair flowing in the CGI of wind? Well, it means the show has its true hero back. Of course, we don't know the form that heroism will take, if he'll be somehow reduced after having spent a couple of days with Ned and Richard Karstak and The Hound....(but he's alive, I hope). In drama, all you have is that moment, and they sold it for all it was worth, giving us the doubt of the once proud Red Woman and Jon coming back to life with just his wolf for company. One could easily make the argument that Jon coming to life is setting the final seasons of Thrones up for the kind of fantasy ending that Martin loathes. And yet, I think we know that at least 2 of these three dragon riders are going down in flames or ice in the final battle, so I'm willing to let people be brought back, if only so Martin or the showrunners can kill them off again. 

If you've been staying up late at night asking yourself, "What's happened to Bran?, like I have then you should probably get a hobby or something. The show was off the air for ten months. And yet, besides now being roughly as tall as Hodor, who apparently could talk as a boy, Bran, has learned how to walk through time. And isn't it nice that he said, "They look so happy," when watching the young Stark boys having a nice sword fight with Lianna parading around and Walder being dragged around by the ear. Yes, it was idyllic, but it was a relief to watch for the viewer and for Bran. This duality provided a nice contrast to the usual parade of death and violence. Outside the weird wood tree we're reminded that Bran can't walk, a sad reminder for Hodor/Walder as well, who's back has been slowly failing him for the last month as he lies slumped against the tree chanting his fake name. 

We take a quick jump to the North where, gasp, the Wildlings arrive just in time. Despite some of the predictable elements, we are left with interesting strings hanging, like Olly and Alliser being spared death's embrace. Though in the latter case I'm not entirely sure why. Perhaps they give fourth chances up at the wall, or perhaps they are beheading him with Jon's fancy sword. And I am always happy to see Tormund with his wild beard, glaring at everyone around him and waiting to hew someone with an axe. He's a keeper. 

Back in King's Landing, once the beating heart of the show, we get the man of prodigious penis telling stories about, wait for it, his penis. This ends, rather predictably with his head being driven into a wall by The Mountain, who looks rather blue about the whole affair. If the run up to the arrival of the High Sparrow and his faith militant was a bit clumsy, the drama surrounding the standoff has been heightened as time has gone by. The High Sparrow, played excellently by Jonathan Pryce, has a wonderful conversation with Jaime, which starts with humility and ends with a threat, which is pretty much standard fair for the High Sparrow at this point. Thus, the viewer avoids two potential boss battles as we don't get to see The Mountain against the King's guard nor Jaime against shirless mace wearing bandits, who really wouldn't be out of place in the movie Weird Science or an episode of Arrested Development as hot cops if they just smiled more. Functionally, this standoff brings Cersei and Tommen back together. And, as usual, Lena Headey plays their scene of being reunited with aplomb. It's hard not to see that she doesn't want to look at Tommen, in part because she now fears she will lose him as well, but eventually she gives in, and now the Lannisters are back together and ready to fight wars on multiple fronts. If only we could get Twyin back, we'd be in heaven. 

The scene shift to Tyrion engaging in management is never a false one. Peter Dinklage is perhaps the strongest actor left on the show, and his excitement, fear and intelligence are all on display in the council meeting and as he stares into the face of a dragon. It's hard to convey as much as he does while acting with CGI, and Dinklage nails it and allows us to indulge in the fantasy of him riding on a dragon reigning fire down. Though he probably would be better suited to managing the water supply of the troops. 

Arya is once again beaten mercilessly while blind. And though it serves some kind of purpose for the narrative, losing her name and her identify can only happen partially. For even though the point of the faceless men is that they belong to no one, Arya whole heartedly belongs to someone. Her whole quest and identity is wrapped up in the atrocities she's witnessed. Thus, losing herself in order to become an assassin who can't choose their target would be a rather painful plot twist. 

Though many objected, rightly so, to Ramsey's scenes of once again reminding us why he's horrible, at least they were carried out intelligently. There is a long moment when it's unclear whether Roose had stabbed Ramsey or the other way around, in which the viewer is wondering if they'd just lost their greatest villian without a proper send off. Is it believable that Roose wouldn't have killed Ramsey off before? Is it believable that he would allow him within 100 yards of him? Probably not, which makes it see like a contrivance of the plot, but it was at least done with some interest. And then the painful moments when we know he's going to kill a baby arrive with that same false tension, is he going to throw the baby on the stones or in the fire? Why am I watching a show that has a dude who throws babies? However, it ends in rather tame fashion, with the child and woman being ripped apart by dogs. This is the only show on television where such a sentence could be seen as merciful. 

Up north, Theon tells Lady Sansa that he's headed home. His journey towards redemption happened rather quickly in this episode, and I'd have been delighted to have watched far fewer scenes of sausage being eaten while he was tortured if it would have allowed more screen time for Theon later in the show. However what's done is done and what's been cut off cannot be reattached. This is all a lead in to remind us that the Iron Islands exist, last seen in roughly season 3. Luckily, if you are writing about the show often enough these characters haven't slipped too far from memory. Asha, who gave up when the hounds were released after sailing a thousand miles to save her brother, is fighting with her father who bears an eerie resemblance to the Frey patriarch about the continued presence of Iron Islanders on land, where they are routinely being slaughtered. She loses the battle because he is king and then walks away in a huff only to find his, probably insane, brother to play an old game with. Everyone remembers the game where you shake on opposite sides of a bridge to see who can hold on while it's swaying. Sadly, the older brother loses the game and plunges to his death. (My first order of business if I'm yara or king crazypants is to get some regular old walkways installed between the towers. I mean, are they so poor that they can only afford rope bridges last seen in Romancing the Stone? Maybe the islanders need to be taxed more heavily. Hopefully future episodes deal explicitly with the economics of the Iron Islands. Fingers crossed. 

I've already written about the grand finale, sadly not oldnakedbodies. And here you can see that I've dipped into roughly 2,00i words of fantasy fan boy. And yet, the episode earned it. It wound up starting to stitch together threads that have been unraveling for three years and give us a road map to where the show could possibly go. Bravo. Now. Let's go take up a job as a stone mason in the iron islands and put some of that rock to use. 

Game of Thrones: Home

The most exciting show on television has returned to bring us what we’ve all been waiting for: either the return of Jon Snow or horrible scenes of violence. Okay. Okay. I kid. It brings us that amazing opening with triumphant music that makes you want to lay waste to villages and ride some dragons into your neighbor’s house for plunder. I love that music.

And so we begin where last we left, Jon’s cold body lying in the snow. Wait! Why did they just leave it there? Does anyone know what  treason looks like anymore. Obviously, not, as Sir Davos, one of my favorite GOT characters, probably because he advocates for not sacrificing children, stumbles on the body and takes him inside to warm him up. Who made marshamallows? Was sadly not heard that day.

Then we get a scene cut to Sir Allisir. Who has more chances than a cat. He manages to shout down the mutiny by appealing to the night watch’s sensibility. A questionable move and turn in the room. Everyone goes a murdering this episode though. He blends right in.

And now we get back to Ramsay. Who hasn’t missed Ramsay? The most nuanced villain this side of….well….Sauron? He enjoys killing puppies and then reanimating them to kill them again by feeding them to his dogs.

And then finally, we get to something happy, which is Lady Sansa sprinting through the woods with Theon. Or, the woman who was raped by Ramsay running with the man he made into a eunuch. In case you weren’t sure, he’s bad. Theon, in what I can only describe as questionable decision making, decides to hole up for the night at around 2:30. This doesn’t go so well, nor does his plan to ward off the dogs by standing there confused. He’s not much of a planner. As such, it takes the arrival of Brienne, riding roughshod over shoulders with Podrick to save Sansa. And then we get a true GOT oddity, a touching moment, Lady Sansa accepting Brienne’s request to watch over her with the help of Theon. Sansa has grown so much since season one when she was falling hard for the prancing prince Joffrey.

Theon then plans to go home. Nothing says going back home like a father who left you for dead and a sister who ran away when dogs chased after her. This can only end well.

We return to the incomparable Lena Headey waiting excitedly for her daughter to arrive home. The way her face changes as the whole scene dawns on her is damned fantastic. Strangely, she harkens back to the witch at the beginning of the last season who told her that all three of her children would die. For a moment, she’s broken, and then Jaime reminds her of that old immortal quote, “Fuck everyone who’s not us.” This Shakesperean sonnet brings the queen back to life and presumably, to war. We also get a brief moment of sand snake trash talk before they stab the prince in the back of the brain. This plot line seems to have sprung from another world, a clumsy one, a hasty one, one that I would find on channel 5 after a long day at school. Xena, warrior princess. Thus, the death of Prince Doran is promising only insofar as it moves us back out of Dorne, which once looked so promising. Or at least beautiful. It has always seemed as though only the prince and three other people live there. Now he’s gone.

Tyrion and Varus stroll around the city of Mereen, blending in with the natives. And by blending in with the natives I mean offering to eat their children and being the only dwarf who walks the streets. But still, no one notices…or do they because suddenly someone is roasting s’mores over in the ship yard and the whole fleet is gone and someone forgot graham crackers.

We briefly check in, (classic first episode check ins) with the two men who are riding for Dany’s heart. The problem is that one of them has a heart of stone, or body or whatever. Then we cut to the Khalasa comedy hour, where Dany is told that she’ll be raped. Welcome back to GOT, except, wait, she had it written in her contract that she’s not doing nudity anymore, so off to the first wive’s club she goes.

The episode moves into the trials and travails of Arya Stark. A rather tired plot line that has bogged down one of Thrones most lovable characters for far too long, but alas, her journey isn’t over yet, she has to be beaten while blind, which is pretty much just standard issue for Thrones.

And then the close, #allthenakedoldbodies. A tired Melisandre removes her necklace to reveal what people have suspected all along, she’s a witch. I think this means they need to burn her or she if she floats or maybe burn her while she floats The specifics escape me. Seeing the amazing Carrie Van Houten turn into game of crones was actually a wonderful touch. I love that the camera lingered on the old body as if it was the young body, the sags of flesh and passage of time that will come for us all. Too many young naked bodies on this show, too much reinforcement of death at a young age. What’s really coming for us is what has come for the red woman, age, and with it, silence. GOT, to make up for all its nudity should strictly show old naked bodies from now on. I can only hope that the show runners are up to the challenge. #allthenakedoldbodies

First Dates....Kind of

We unwrapped our sandwiches and sat at the bench, while I picked at my food, too nervous to really eat the food, which was problematic because a pair of hornets started menacing us, and we briefly swatted at them before eventually retreating and ceding the sandwiches to them. Year later, I’d have used the joke that I always do now, running away from the bee frantically and saying, “I’m sorry that I’m so scared. I’m actually allergic to bees,” which tends to make the other person excuse your prissiness and pushing them in the lower back towards said bees. And after a while, twenty minutes or so, I might let it slide that I’m not actually allergic to bees but that I really didn’t like getting stung by them because it hurts. I didn’t have it in me back then, and who knows what sort of unmanliness she perceived in my retreat from the sandwiches. 

There are stark moments in one’s life that you remember forever. Of course, there are also other bits that are like detritus, stuck in the branches of trees, an old song lyric, an afternoon at the house of an old babysitter that sit side by side with those other, seemingly full memories. As we stood beneath the Live Oaks, the heat sucking the life from the day she asked me a terrible question. She said, “Is this like a date?” 

My heart started racing as it did nearly every time I spoke with, or imagined speaking with someone of the opposite sex, except, this time, rather critically, I was actually in the presence of someone of the opposite sex, who I had developed feelings for over the course of the past three months, talked to, laughed with, etc. etc. I was going to ask her to prom even, but someone else swooped in. Talking to her, spending time on the bench, was ostensibly like pulling teeth, minus the novacaine and the pulled teeth. Okay, it was perhaps not the aptest of metaphors. 

And in that interim of a moment that seemed like it could last forever, I could have said anything. The echo of all the words that any two people have said to one another hung in the air, but reader, I said yes. Sadly, this was not Jane Eyre. Stomach rumbling I walked back to the bench and sat on top of it. She closed the space between us and sat next to me. 

She told me that in the time between the end of school and the start of summer she’d started hanging out with someone else. The guy was the star of the football team and went on to play at the local Juco, small and quick. He was also incredibly nice and smiled and laughed often. In comparison, I had to offer the fact that I’d beaten Shining Force at least 2x already that summer. What do you say to that? I didn’t protest. I didn’t say much of anything at all. I wished her luck in dating, and I took back the parts of myself that had been exposed, and I started putting them back together.

I don’t remember if I cried. To be clear, such a state would not have been unusual. I remember the shocked disbelief when she spoke of him, the almost lightless feeling your body gets when you’re in pain. If ever I was to believe in a soul, it would be in those moments, when the words are too much to bare, and you suddenly see yourself in two places, one, still trapped in that useless body, the other, pulling and tugging to get out, and yet we are mired anyway inside ourselves, standing in the foyer of your house, an ornate lamp overhead, tan tiles, a white wall, making small talk about the guy she’s now seeing.