We drove the rest of the way through avenues of oaks, my
hand still wrestling nervously, the pockets of shade a respite from the warmth
of those mid-summer days. I drove the car slowly and inexpertly, asking for her
advice on where to park, conscious of her every movement, the positioning of
her left hand on the seat, her denim shorts, and the bits of white skin,
pricked red by heat. As I recall it now, she blushed often too, or perhaps her
complexion was just red. Who really remembers anything accurately?
She was wearing a teal t-shirt that complimented, quite
nicely the blue in her eyes. If not for nerves, I could have driven forever
down those darkened roads, driving in a car next to a girl I found attractive,
looking for somewhere to stop. Finally, she pointed to a small pull off, and I
parked the car, yanking the wheel hard to the left because the car was one of
the last to lack power steering, which meant you had to pull it hand over hand
like a ship’s wheel in a storm in order to turn it properly, a Toyota Eagle
with a trunk that leaked in the rain, leaving the faint smell of mold in the car
throughout the winter and sometimes deepened by the heat in summer months. In
short, the sort of car that girls love.
We moved out underneath the oaks, through the star thistle
and towards the old bench situated near the grill. The grill was turned up, a
few spare ashes that hadn’t yet been blown away by the wind. What does it feel
like to get your heart broken? The term first appears in the 1580’s, though you’d
be forgiven for thinking that it originated in the last 50 years or so in pop
songs. Of course, that’s simply not true as the term has been extant for nearly
half a millennia. To be clear, what happens next didn’t exactly break my heart.
Technically someone suffering from broken heart syndrome experiences a severe
physical pain that’s somewhat akin to heart attack, though the chances of you
dying from it are nearly nil. And yet, suffering overwhelming emotional
distress associated with heartbreak (we tend to associate the term with lost
relationships, which is perhaps the most universal, but people who have lost
loved ones, parents, siblings etc. should probably be thought of right along
with the typical end of relationship feeling if we’re being smart about it) is
a real thing. This is all nearly a non-sequitur as I didn’t have the sorts of
strong feelings for this particular girl that would result in heartbreak.
Though I was quite sad, but I suppose I’ve skipped over a critical portion of
the story here and should probably get back to it.
The heat was oppressive that day, withering the brown and
golden bits of thistle and grass, and she had a thin bead of sweat that ran
perpendicular across the top of her lip. She had red cheeks and smiled very
frequently, which was useful because I was very frequently nervous and needed
encouragement to keep talking and smiling at me and laughing frequently, a deep
sort of throaty thing, was precisely what I needed in order to keep talking to
her. If she didn’t laugh frequently and smile frequently I’d have probably
blushed my way into oblivion.
I don’t remember her ever seeming particularly nervous. I
think the thing that made her the most nervous was probably how nervous I was
to be sitting next to her on a bench outside of her father’s math class where I
was trying to blunder my way into B- by constantly asking for help. I don’t remember
precisely what we used to talk about, though perhaps it was something about the
contours of the day, or the people that we knew in common, things said in
class. I was a junior in high school so nothing could have been of particular
interest.
I was neither charming nor particularly interesting back
then, primarily because I felt and quite frankly was, entirely misunderstood.
Everyone conceived of me as this extraordinarily shy guy who didn’t really want
to engage, particularly with girls. This was patently untrue, though it didn’t
help that I was often shy, particularly around girls and didn’t really talk to
them. But it was always annoying that people couldn’t see into my heart of
hearts, where I was always wanting to talk, especially to pretty girls, rather
than paying attention only to my outer self, who was shy and scared to talk, especially
to pretty girls. I’ve always found it suspect that no one could read my mind.
So we’d sit on the bench after school, I’d quit basketball
that year after realizing that the season was year round, unrelenting, and not
particularly rewarding, when, at best, Icame off the bench and ran around like
a chicken with its head cut off for a few minutes before a coach would pull me
out of the game and ask why I hadn’t boxed out or taken a short jumper, and I’d
have no answer because I didn’t play enough organized basketball to ever know
why I was doing anything. I was just running around trying not to f-ck up.
We unwrapped our sandwiches and sat at the bench, while I
picked at my food, too nervous to really eat the food, which was problematic
because a pair of hornets started menacing us, and we briefly swatted at them
before eventually retreating and ceding the sandwiches to them. Year later, I’d
have used the joke that I always do now, running away from the bee frantically
and saying, “I’m sorry that I’m so scared. I’m actually allergic to bees,”
which tends to make the other person excuse your prissiness and pushing them in
the lower back towards said bees. And after a while, twenty minutes or so, I
might let it slide that I’m not actually allergic to bees but that I really
didn’t like getting stung by them because it hurts. I didn’t have it in me back
then, and who knows what sort of unmanliness she perceived in my retreat from
the sandwiches.
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